Our Lives Are Not Quite an Uninterrupted Triumphal March
I have just finished reading Virginia Woolf’s Orlando: A Biography, which she wrote in 1928. Actually, it is not the biography of a real character, but of a highly fictional one. Not only does Orlando live for upwards of 400 years, but the character physically changes gender at some point in the early 18th century. And he/she manages the change swimmingly.
As Woolf wrote about her Orlando:
For she had a great variety of selves to call upon, far more than we have been able to find room for, since a biography is considered complete if it merely accounts for six or seven selves, whereas a person may well have as many thousand.
Tilda Swinton as the Male Orlando in the 1992 Sally Potter Film
There was an excellent film version of Orlando released in 1992, with Tilda Swinton playing both the male and female lead.
Both the book and the film set me to thinking of my own fragmented life, which included the following scenes:
- The 5-year-old sent home from kindergarten for not being able to speak in English (my native language is Hungarian).
- The teenager who has turned sickly with punishing frontal headaches.
- The high school valedictorian who has won a four-year scholarship to an Ivy League college.
- The college graduate, within days of leaving for graduate study at UCLA, goes into a coma and subsequent brain surgery. My pituitary gland was destroyed by a tumor that was causing the headaches and making me, at 21, look like an 11-year old.
- The young man in his 20s who feels as if he were from Mars, looks absurdly young, and can’t get girls interested in him.
- The same young man in a few years learning that alienation is part of the human condition.
- In his 40s, he finds love with a cute woman born in France, who doesn’t mind that he can’t father a child.
… and so on.
Tilda Swinton as the Female Orlando from the Film
I guess I managed all those years without once having to change my gender. Of course, there is little chance that I will reach the ripe old age of 400.